I know you are asking, “When are we going to get to what I need in my life and what I want to accomplish?” You need wait no further:
Give This Day Our Daily Bread
Once you submit to God in your daily life and surrender to your promise to God and your mission on earth, you need your sustenance to continue on the journey you began when you were born of this earth. It is here you discuss with God what you need in your life and in which direction you would like it to go, while asking for nourishment. It is here we thank God for all the abundance we have received.
God, your Father wants you to have your needs and wants in this body. He wants you to have great joy and abundance in this life. He is not saying that you will have instant gratification. Abundance is cumulative in nature.
How do you get this abundance?
First, you have to be grateful. Sometime I will superimpose the word Graceful (meaning Full of Grace). You are full of Grace when you love yourself in the Lord. How can you love others when you don’t love yourself? I can attest to that on a very personal level. If you look at yesterday’s blog you will see part of my story. As a young person in school, I had problems memorizing; and fifty-eight years after graduating high school, I still do. My long term memory is great; it has always been the short term. I succeeded in college; because I learned to study diligently during the semester. When it came to finals week, I would not cram for the exams. You could find me playing pool in the Brenton Student Center at Simpson College in Iowa, playing bridge with friends, playing baseball, or some other distraction. I would enter the exams refreshed and when the questions came, my long term memory kicked in. My mother was a very successful high school teacher and well loved by her students. When I came home with lousy grades, instead of helping me or getting me help she would constantly tell me that I would be a failure, or that I would not amount to a hill of beans. In addition, there was never a demonstration of love from either parent; never a hug and never a verbal expression of love. All my relationships, until I graduated from college were selfish relationships; because I had no base of reference on what love was. Until I left college and was out on my own, every time I opened my soul to receive love I was brutally wounded. It has taken nearly a lifetime for me to love myself. Please, fill yourself with the Grace of our Lord; so you don’t have to go the pain and suffering I experienced.
Second, you need to be precisely clear what your desire is before placing your request in the hands of God your Father. In example, “Lord, I desire an abundance of money.” How much is abundance? If you have spare change in your pocket right now, you are wealthier than 90% of the world’s population. I live in a rural community where our major industry is farming. I remember a sermon given to us by Pastor Sam Hernes. He addressed the farmers in the congregation, “Be careful of praying for rain. If you are not specific in your petition to God, He will give you rain. It might be enough to settle the dust or you may get forty days and forty nights of rain. You need to be specific.” If you don’t have in mind exactly what it is you desire, then you only have a dream – Oh, it would be nice, someday. Remember, what you seed, you will get back tenfold.
Third, you must be committed to the goal of reaching/obtaining your desire. This is simple, if you are not committed to doing what is necessary to reach your desire, why should God? Once you are thoroughly committed to your goal with your heart, mind and soul, then God will place all the resources in your hands. I like to say that God has a sense of humor. Let’s say your goal is to build your family a house and God gives you a sledge hammer, a pick-axe, and a shovel. You’re automatically thinking, “How can I build something with these items of destruction?” What you forgot was that you may have level the ground and break up the boulders on the plot where you want the house before you start constructing the house. Be aware, that God will provide you what you need to achieve your goals; but they may not appear at the time as such.
Fourth, you must unreservedly trust in the Lord, your God. He may lead you in one direction or give you something that appears to be the exact opposite of what you need at the time. You are driving down the road that leads you to your desire. Suddenly, God has put a detour in your way. We have all encountered those detours that take you sometimes fifty miles in the wrong direction, getting you the driver totally frustrated and sometimes angry. What you didn’t see was that bridge crossing troubled waters had collapsed. When you place your total trust in the Lord, He will help you to avoid those troubled waters that we don’t see.
Fifth, show your gratitude to the Lord, your God. This is key to loving one’s self. Let’s take a look at something that happens daily. We all like to help others; whether it an elderly person with carrying a heavy load, a neighbor removing snow when your neighbor is hurt or sick, a co-worker who is stuck on a project and you have what is needed to put it back on track. How would you feel if that person you helped never gave you a simple “Thank You” for your effort? Wouldn’t you give it a second thought the next time that person wanted or needed help? I know that I would. Why should our treatment of God be any different? God does not expect nor does he want an extravagant demonstration of that gratitude. Simply take a moment and tell Him, “Thank you Lord. I couldn’t have made it without your help.” It is that simple. With my children and grandchildren, all grandma and I want is a simple “Thank You” and a hug. I especially like those hugs; because I never got them as a child.
God doesn’t always give us what we want; but he will always, always give us what we need. For those with eyes that see and have ears that hear!